Depending on your personality, you may or may not feel the need for an often-there, same-sex friend. I used to have a number of these, and it was nice. I don't anymore, and it's not as nice. When I'm busy I don't think about it, but when I'm not and just feeling like it'd be nice to hang with someone I don't see every day, I wish for one. There's a number of people I know that I'd love to hang out with on a regular (weekly, every other week) basis, but people are busy, and other things are priority over their friendships I guess.
Why don't we make more time for our friends? Why do we seclude off when we get married, get older, when we multiply, etc? Not all of us do this, because (from the aid of Facebook allowing us to monitor others' lives without really making an effort to) it's obvious that groups of friends do still get together regularly. But not all of us do. Some of us may desperately want to. Others of us couldn't care less. And others of us do care but are unaware of those looking for them to be around more.
I wish we lived down the street from some of our friends here. It seems like that physical proximity would make a lot of things much easier. Suddenly people become more available when your place is easier to get to. It's true, it seems.
Just some thoughts: Tell people you want to hang with them. Be more open to people telling you they want to hang with you. Realize it'll do you good, even if it's not in your routine. I think as we get older, busier, more tired, what have you.. we come up with reasons not to keep certain human connections with those we're not related to. If you submit yourself to the idea of stepping out, you'll find you were glad you did.. AND it'll give you energy, to cure your "busy" or to cure your "tired".
I'm starting to take action. A girl's night had been started among gals at church, which I took lead of when it started to fizzle about a year or so ago. I'd like to do something every other week with it, but sometimes I just don't have the money to go out that often. I'd love to host my home, but I feel like I can't effectively do that where we are. People who live downtown are less interested in a trip to the boonies I think. So I feel like to really get this going may partially pivot upon our move. I'm looking forward to getting it going more regularly though.
I'm doing something!
Thursday, March 18, 2010
Friday, March 5, 2010
My Husband & The Earth's Gravitational Pull
We were driving to McKay last night (so Jon could find a financial read and I could get Invasion of the Body Snatchers, ha).. but the best part of the trip was the conversation he started on the drive there...
"So, supposing you could dig your way from one end of the earth to the other, and supposing you could dig through the center of the earth without being burned alive.. and supposing that, while most likely you'd come out in the ocean on the other side, it wouldn't phase the other hypotheticals of this idea... you would fly out the other side, and fall directly back into your hole. Since gravity is at the center of this scenario, you'd continue to keep falling back through the center of the earth and coming out both sides for a time, with the energy of your fall decreasing slowly as you go. Eventually you'd end up stuck at the center of the earth since that is where gravity is pulling you toward.."
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My question was this:
"What would happen to you if you were in the exact center of the force of gravity? Gravity isn't just a downward force there.. it's a coming-from-all-directions force, as shown by the green arrows. How would this not-downward but all-surrounding force affect the human body? I bet you would physically age better if you lived in the center of the earth."
Noted: Conversations of this nature are one of the things I absolutely love about who we are when we're together :•)
"So, supposing you could dig your way from one end of the earth to the other, and supposing you could dig through the center of the earth without being burned alive.. and supposing that, while most likely you'd come out in the ocean on the other side, it wouldn't phase the other hypotheticals of this idea... you would fly out the other side, and fall directly back into your hole. Since gravity is at the center of this scenario, you'd continue to keep falling back through the center of the earth and coming out both sides for a time, with the energy of your fall decreasing slowly as you go. Eventually you'd end up stuck at the center of the earth since that is where gravity is pulling you toward.."
(click image to view larger)My question was this:
"What would happen to you if you were in the exact center of the force of gravity? Gravity isn't just a downward force there.. it's a coming-from-all-directions force, as shown by the green arrows. How would this not-downward but all-surrounding force affect the human body? I bet you would physically age better if you lived in the center of the earth."
Noted: Conversations of this nature are one of the things I absolutely love about who we are when we're together :•)
Thursday, March 4, 2010
Holy Moly Ads!
I think I can fit a FEW MORE messages in this crampy email layout, don't you?(Don't worry, they will find a way to do it.)
This file is one of 157 or more that I have to change the messaging on, between February and April. Oh man. For each week during that span, there are 10-15 different versions for different states.. AND some states have Kmart versions too! All I can say is, at least they're not doing all the states every week, sheesh. I'm looking forward to May 1, and the end of this campaign.
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